rasuah kah aku?

pap

my son who recently were ‘awarded’ with a sony erricson w660i for his efforts in upsr.

he couldnt get 5A; chances of getting place in boarding schools were a bit slim and we’re not putting a high hope on that.

but

i really wants him to further his studies in tahfiz school

i want him to be Al Hafiz…

he was quite okay with the idea though he would prefer schools with his friends here in KL.

and he was shortlisted to one of the sekolah rancangan khas

(special day school meant for those 5A’s and 4A’s who couldnt get a place in SBP/MRSM)

but there is a Tahfiz Science School – a private boarding school that teaches normal science stream plus tahfiz stuffs. the system was superb, one of our relatives who is in form 2, already memorized 17 juzuks..

the school is in Kelantan.

the school is linked to some great uni’s in middle east.. ie AL Azhar. those leaving form 5 is secured the place there (TnC applies)

and through some friends; i’ve secured a place for him there…

and i told him;

if you accept the offer; i’ll buy you the latest Sony PSP that you wants !

rasuah kah itu ??

i just want  an Al Hafiz…

though he still have the final say !

20 Responses to “rasuah kah aku?”

  1. hmmm…2 pandangan dari putu

    a) Yes, it is rasuah.
    b) No, it’s not.. it’s kind of agreement between father and son..

    so…the choice is yours bang long..!

  2. tu nmnye adiah,sumbangan @ galakan le dd.ok pe.dr bg adiah ‘tali pinggang’ @ ‘hanger’. heeee

  3. yes..mmg rasuah..but rasuah yg m’beri semangat,inspirasi & galakkan utk dia lebih usaha utk b’jaya lebih lg ke hadapan.Yg penting dia tk lupa diri & jasa p’gorbanan seorg ayah…..Huahuahuaa kasihnya ayah akan dikenang jua.

  4. hehehe!

    rasuah ke arah kebaekkan!

    tp kang kalo da masok skola tahfiz..

    tade mase da nak maen psp!

    ahahahahaha!

  5. rasuah yg leh di terima or bukan nama rasuah but as a ‘gift’ yg dia leh target jika achieved sumthing that we as parents mau dia buat sedemikian

    itu juwerr yg me buat for my kids if he achieved sumthing ..

    takat nie yg dia dah dapat … dia darjah 5 thn nehh sek cina

    a. mini bike
    b. ps2
    c. besikal / new spectacles
    d. nek ketebang.
    d. ps3/ …. tunggu upsr jugak kot

  6. hope at the end your son will have the final says….let him do whatever his choice is…itu pandangan dari kaunselor yang belum dapat lesen…hehehe

  7. lawyerlyscrewed Says:

    No its not rasuah..as a product of incentive-given child by parents..i think its more of an incentive.. hehehehe

  8. hmm… very hard to say… rasuah ke?

    anyway, my 2 cent… jgn dipaksa anak2… patut tanya dia betul2 apa dia minat.. walaupun ini ke arah kebaikan tapi takutnya dia ikut cakap abanglong semata2 sbb psp tu so nanti belajar ntah kemana… belajar sbb minat compare ngan belajar sbb terpaksa ni jauh bezanya…🙂

    lagi 1, pasal kids & comp. related games nih.. baru2 nih i macam dah takut sket sbb kasi anak main… my eldest son (7 y.o) memang hantu games, dari kecik lagi… dulu i tak tahan dia kacau my laptop (i pun hantu games gak mah hahaha) so i give him GameBoy when he was 5.. mostly GameBoy punya games sesuai utk kids his age so it’s just nice… few months pakai he saw psp & want it… keep bragging so i tak tahan.. no point having 2 mobile game device so i give him ps2… ps2 games more matured & senang citer lagi brutal (of coz la bapak beli juga games brutal sbb nak join sama)… tapi yg tak tahannya he still continue main semua jenis games i.e GameBoy, ps2 & pcgames including online punya game… my laptop still kena bantai but my wife punya laptop dia tak sentuh (takut mak dia mengamuk). from racing game to fighting game all he can play.. he can even play strategy game like Command & Conquer starting from scratch & win!! he’s good… really… no joke & he’s only Darjah 1! but u know what? one day (a few weeks ago) he show me what he draw proudly, a full set of weapons. he names it all.. MP5, AK47,M16 Carbine, HE grenade, Flashbang, kevlar jacket etc… i knew he must learn it from Counter Strike.. just recently he show me a new online game he found.. i think it was Archilles… basicly it’s a roman warrior pergi perang.. libas2 pedang kena musuh terpenggal kepala jatuh tergolek2, darah terpancut2 macam paip air… my son ketawa terbahak2… musuh tembak anak panah dia pandai pulak pakai shield tahan… really, i dah start takut tengok my kid… ingat nak stop semua dah…

    banyak lak taip hahahaha… anyway, sebenarnya i nak cakap baik bagi hadiah benda2 yg berfaedah je ;p

  9. I think, for a 12 years old boy, its not rasuah. They need lots of motivation. It is called a reward! hehee.. pepandai aje.. tapi bagus niat tu. Bukan senang nak masuk sekolah tu. Sekarang semua orang berebut2 nak hantar anak sekolah Tahfiz science stream tu..

  10. hehehehe

    suka ati ur son le kan… as dia yg has the final say!
    i guess apa saja yang buat dia hepi, u guys are gonna feel happy too, rite?
    🙂

  11. putu – hehehhe; kalau masa peksa jawab cam gini; sah kosong markah.🙂

  12. riena – tapi adiah tu ada sebab dan kepentingan pihak ketiga! camana tu

  13. kodok – mungkin juga dia akan menerima. namun dia masuk skolah tu is kerana PSP. then dah masuk…

  14. hummy – bapak dia leh maen !!! muahahahahahaha

  15. My opinion Bro….that’s motivation….

  16. wow, I think that’s a tough decision for the kid. He knows his abah is going all out to ask him to be there. And he wouldn’t want to displease his abah, right ?

  17. beaber – huhuhuhu..lagi powerrr neh. well basically we would give anything for the sake of their happines. there are things that we couldnt afford to have during our kiddo years… and kalau boleh, kita tannak the feeling tu anak kita rasai.

  18. osh – huhuhu… hang menang pengkomen paling panjang rasanya ni hahahaha.

    tu la osh; we did let he basically choose what he wants. anyhow we do somehow gave him some bigger picture in life. its hard to let a 12 y/o kiddo to think big though.

    he still made the decision. its his life. we just show some path🙂 hehehe

    wah ! canggih noo your kid. mine also same.kids, they love video/computer games. kita kena monitor jer la.

  19. neeza- yeah… we attend the interview. i will write an entry about it soon

  20. nurul – tough decission though🙂

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